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Parenting : Control yourself, not your kids!

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Life gives us a chance to become a better version of ourselves when we are parents. Parenthood is a journey filled with learning and progress for both parents and children. Its an oppurtunity to reflect on ourselves and be the best we can be for the little eyes that are watching. If we, adults can't control ourselves, it's absurd to expect it from our little ones. For them every small emotion is new, big and overwhelming! Lets together help mould our little ones by first being good examples. Bear in mind, they learn better from what they see and hear. Even in your toughest time, remember to control your thoughts and beliefs; behaviour and speech; habits and attitude ;anger and fear; Don't control their imagination and curiosity; emotions and feelings, just DON'T! Your children will become who you are; so be who you want them to be. Lets embrace our own imperfections and work on ourselves and grant our children a chance of a meaningful childhood .

Toddler activity: Painting

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PAINTING is by far, the most engaging activity for lil T, so engaging that amma can finally sneak away to answer nature's call (phew,what a relief!),so painting is now officially in my "mom's survival kit", mummies you should definitely try this! Painting is a great messy play for toddlers and its just so much FUN, so fun,I don't mind cleaning up. Painting is much more than just a simple activity,it contributes in multiple aspects of a child's development(cognitive, emotional and sensory).It helps develop their fine motor skills (grasping, holding brush), improves hand eye coordination, stimulates brain and sensory development( colors,texture), sparks creativity, build up their imagination and self expression. Painting gives the sense of freedom toddlers yearns for, giving them space to build self confidence without following any strict rules or guidelines. It could be therapeutic as well, allowing them to express their emotions. It can be a great bonding ...

Amma's note: Dear Mom, you are not a Failure!

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Have you ever felt like a failure? Despite juggling between work, home and kid(s); some days just makes me feel like a loser.( I blame the hormones). It feels like no matter what you do its never enough (or done to my satisfaction). Some days I feel like I've won and conquered it all and then there are days I just can't pick myself up, I get home exhausted or get to work lethargic, uhh the struggle is real. But let me remind you and me, no matter how incompetent you feel, you are doing a tremendous job, each of your efforts count and you make a significant difference in the lives of your loved ones! Its okay to feel low, take some time to deal with it and gently pick yourself up and be ready to roll. Remember, you matter, everything else(the dirty laundry,dishes and emails) can wait! Take a nap,a long shower, a hearty meal, just anything to your delight. Tomorrow is another day and I hope we shine through!

Amma's note: Trust and love matters!

Have u ever wondered why are you being rushed to get married? Your parents especially your mother have lost her peace of mind since the day you were born. Worrying of your safety,upbringing and what not! They wait for you to go to school , wait for you to get to college and wait for you to get your job and CAN'T WAIT TO GET YOU MARRIED! Its just like passing on the baton to another person.Whether you are dependent on them or independent, the worry, the parenting doesn't stop! You can't blame them, they are wired for parenting for more than 20 years and that's a long time. Is there a solution? Yes just keep calm. Dear parents, instead of passing the 'baton' to another person in the name of spouse, why not pass it to your children? Trust your children and the values you instilled, believe they are ready to live their life at their own terms and they will just know when to come back to you and realise how much they need you in their life. Dear childrens, all the ...

Bump on the head?

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Trauma or injury of the head is a pretty common occurence from infancy and thereafter. It may be a frightening sight but more often the injuries are only external and aren't serious (thanks to the proctective layers of the skull) and can be easily treated at home(apply cold co mpression).So when should you be worried of an internal head injury? Watch out for the following signs within the next 24 hours after an injury: -vomiting -loss of consciousness or appears confused -cries excessively (more than usual) -sleeps more or less than usual -loss of appetite -irritable - lack of response or interest in play -unusual behaviour (weakness or unable to walk or move the arms or legs) -complains of headache(older children) -blood or watery discharge from nose or ears - changes in eye(pupil size and visual disturbances) These signs are suggestive for a more serious injury and require medical assistance. Worry not if your child resumes his/her activities after a brief spell...

Baby activity: Pom Pom Drop

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"My child meddles and play with household items although he has many toys".If this is your daily acquaintance it simply means your child is curious,exploring and expanding his/her horizon. And yes that's good news, its part of their growth and development! However, it definitely freaks us out when they reach out to potential hazardous items around the house and that's where sensory play comes to rescue. Include daily household items as materials for play, keep the little curious creatures engaged and have a fun playing session. Here, I've done some pom pom sensory play activity and again pom pom can be incorporated at playtime in multiple ways and today I'm sharing the Pom Pom Drop! All u need is a container (anything suitable from milk tins to tupperware)with a hole and some pom poms. P/s: Ensure the hole you make is smooth without any rough edges for safety purposes.

Amma's note:Gratitude

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Appreciate the little things in life! The joy of life often lies in the little things we take for granted.Be grateful.Tea is love❤ #lessonsfrommyson #littlethings #gratitude #gratefulmom #mominreallife #tealover